Speak So They Listen...

Are You Ready to 

Stop Dreading Difficult Conversations?

Prepare with clarity, confidence, and compassion.

Whether it's a conversation with your partner, child, coworker, employee, friend, or family member, difficult conversations can keep us awake at night. We replay them over and over, wondering what to say, what not to say, and whether speaking up will make things better—or worse.

My Speak So They Listen: The Difficult Conversation Planner gives you a simple step-by-step process to prepare before you talk, so you can approach the conversation feeling calmer, clearer, and more confident.

YES! I Want My Planner
Speak So They Listen...

Are You Ready to 

Stop Dreading Difficult Conversations?

Prepare with clarity, confidence, and compassion.

 

Whether it's a conversation with your partner, child, coworker, employee, friend, or family member, difficult conversations can keep us awake at night. We replay them over and over, wondering what to say, what not to say, and whether speaking up will make things better—or worse.

My Speak So They Listen: The Difficult Conversation Planner gives you a simple step-by-step process to prepare before you talk, so you can approach the conversation feeling calmer, clearer, and more confident.

Yes! I Want My Planner

IMAGINE WALKING INTO YOUR CONVERSATION KNOWING...

âś” What you're really trying to communicate
âś” What matters most to you
âś” How to express yourself without blaming or attacking
âś” How to stay connected, even if the conversation becomes emotional
âś” That you've prepared for the conversation instead of worrying about it

Inside You'll Receive

The Difficult Conversation Planner

A printable guided workbook that helps you prepare from beginning to end.

Step-by-Step Video Guidance

A short welcome video plus four guided video sections walk you through the process, so you can watch, pause, and work through your planner at your own pace.

Bonus Guide:
 Five Things to Remember Before Any Difficult Conversation

Lifetime Access

Return to the planner whenever another important conversation comes along.

What You'll Learn

Using the planner, you'll work through:

Separating facts from assumptions 
&
Understanding your own feelings and needs

 

Considering the other person's perspective
&
Clarifying the outcome you're hoping to create
Planning requests instead of demands
&
Preparing for difficult moments before they happen

The Difficult Conversation Planner

Only $27

  • Printable Planner

  • Step-by-Step Video Guidance

  • Bonus Guide: Five Things to Remember Before Any Difficult Conversation

  • Lifetime Access
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You Don't Need Perfect Words.

You simply need a thoughtful plan.

This planner helps you slow down, organize your thoughts, and enter important conversations with greater confidence, compassion, and intention.

Is there a conversation on your mind?

 Maybe you've been putting it off because you're not sure what to say. Or you've been rehearsing it over and over, trying to find the “right” words.
Maybe the conversation is coming whether you feel ready or not.
The Difficult Conversation Planner is designed for that moment.

 

 

This planner brings together the same communication principles I teach in my workshops and coaching in a practical format you can use anytime you need it. 

It helps you slow down before you speak, sort out what actually happened from the story you've built around it, understand what matters to you, consider what may matter to the other person, and prepare to show up in a way you'll feel good about afterward.

 

You don't need a perfect script.

You need a way to get clear before you begin.

 

 

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SUCCESS STORIES

Read What Early Users Discovered as They Prepared for an Important Conversation...

“The Difficult Conversation Planner led to a huge realization for me: I’ve been creating misunderstanding and unnecessary angst in some of my relationships for years.

 Learning to separate the facts from the stories I was telling myself was especially powerful. The process helped me look at my relationships differently and recognize that when someone matters enough for an interaction to affect me, the relationship may be worth the time and effort it takes to have a meaningful conversation. I went from feeling 3 out of 10 prepared to 7 out of 10—and I came away with insights that went far beyond the one conversation I was planning.” 

TRISHA GROBECK | Retired CFO & Group Fitness Instructor 

“The Difficult Conversation Planner helped me prepare for a conversation with my sister that I had been thinking about having for a long time.

  The reflection questions helped me examine my assumptions, consider her perspective, and get clear about what I wanted to communicate. During the actual conversation, I noticed the impulse to explain or defend myself—and because I had prepared for that possibility, I was able to step away from it and really listen. I discovered that my sister had been focused on a specific experience that had hurt her, while I had been thinking about our relationship much more broadly. That opened the door to valuable sharing, greater understanding, and things for both of us to continue exploring. You may be surprised by what you learn about yourself in the process.

I found the process so useful that I’ve already begun incorporating aspects of the planner into my work with a client.” 

CINDY | Retired Psycholgist

“Before using the Difficult Conversation Planner, I felt about 2 out of 10 prepared for the conversations I needed to have.

After working through it, I felt 10 out of 10 prepared. The process helped me become less emotional about the issues, gain clarity about what I really wanted from the conversation, and consider the other person’s perspective instead of taking their behavior personally. I feel much more grounded, calm, and prepared to have a rational conversation with a beneficial outcome.”

MARIA SMITH-BYRD | Owner, Sacred Kaleidescopes

Yes! I Want Productive Conversations!

Let’s start creating conversations that lead to more connection, trust, and forward movement—at work, at home, and everywhere in between.